Welcome to Reflections on Living

Reflections on Living is one of the tools spawned by Learn the Lessons Technologies. Our hope is that by using this site; reading and reflecting on the information here, you will be better equipped to separate the oftentimes painful feelings of your experiences from the lessons they are meant to teach. You’ll be mining for [...]

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The Gift of Learning

Teaching should be such that what is offered is perceived as a valuable gift and not as a hard duty~Einstein More often than not we begin school with the realization that everyone has attend—it’s your duty and expected. Everyone goes to school because they are forced to go by law and by parents. Instead, we [...]

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The Knowledge Illusion

People of intelligence shatter the illusion of knowledge. They are willing to try something that everyone thinks is outrageous and stupid~Unknown Breakthroughs take place when we slip through the illusions of knowledge with its glass ceilings and walls of thoughts, rules, and theories, when we think out of the box, in a new and revolutionary [...]

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No Going Back

Man’s mind ‘struck by insight’ never goes back to its original dimensions~Unknown We all know you cannot un-ring a bell. Well, insight is just like that because once the insight occurs; you can never go back to who you were before the insight. Your essence is changed completely and forever. The reason insight cannot be [...]

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The Whole of Humanity

No man is so great as mankind~Theodore E. Parker History is filled with people of greatness of every kind. Explorers, inventors, scientists, and with all their great contributions to the world, it could be argued that the world is a much better place. I personally maintain an admiration and respect for their contributions and like [...]

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What We Have Made

It is a painful thing—to look at your own trouble and know—that you yourself and no one else has made it~Sophocles Shocking! That’s what this reality is. Imagine, no one else has made this problem, no sir—this problem is something you created by yourself—for yourself, to understand some lesson you have not learned. The pain [...]

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What vs. Who

It is not who is right, but what is right, that is important.—Thomas Huxley Although this situation is prevalent in every area of life, it seems most obvious in the workplace. People seem more interested in blaming than claiming responsibility. For training purposes, knowing the “who” is obviously important to identify, so that re-training may [...]

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What if?

Lessons learned are the bridges with which to cross the rivers of regret.—Unknown My river of regret began early in life—I was convinced by others I depended on that, no matter what, I was always wrong and in the wrong. Wherever there was a disagreement between me and anyone else, I automatically assumed, because of [...]

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It’s an Inside Job

It would be impossible to alter our life without first altering our thinking.—Unknown If the life we are currently living is reflective of our current thinking, which obviously it is, then it stands to reason that altering our thinking should alter our life. However, that’s not what most people do. Instead, we focus on changing [...]

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What is Control Anyway?

You can never expect to be able to control what goes on outside if you are not capable of controlling what goes on inside.—Unknown Rather than control I would suggest understanding instead. It seems rather obvious, at least to me, that control is an idea more than a reality. Control suggests a psychological power to [...]

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Take the Time to Look

Only with wisdom can you see that belief in what you do—not see, can lead you see what you believe.—Unknown It is critically important to objectively observe our own behaviors, for therein lies the truth of who we are—not what we think we are, or wish to believe we are. The genuine you is revealed [...]

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